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Doctrine & Covenants 121

In Summing Up: Lessons to Guide Your Parenting, the author repeats the same advice that God gave us about disciplining when says “It's important that parents learn to talk to children in a way that is not enraging, doesn't inflict hurt, doesn't diminish their children's self-confidence, or cause them to lose faith in their competence and self-worth.” In the article, there is an example when a taxi driver talks with anger to a kid, and the kid just answers “"Is this the way you talk to a doctor”. I will increase the level of the authority figure with the question: Is this the way you talk to the son of God? The other counsel that God gave to the prophet Joseph Smith is to show the other the mistake, but don’t forget to show greater evidence of genuine love. How do I do both at the same time? In the chapter there are some helpful suggestions: 1. The beginning of wisdom is listening. 2. Acknowledge the child's perceptions, feelings, wishes, tastes, opinions, c...
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Prophets on Anger

Experiencing anger as an emotion and acting out in anger toward our children remarkable sentences.  “If you would have God have mercy on you, have mercy on one another.”  “Anger should never be permitted to rise in our bosoms, and words suggested by angry feelings should never be permitted to pass our lips.”  “Never must there be expressed an oath, a condemnatory term, an expression of anger or jealousy or hatred.”  “It is imperative that we understand that God's chief way of acting is by persuasion and patience and long-suffering, not by coercion and stark confrontation.” To summarize, if we are followers of Christ, we have to avoid acting in anger. Testimony Reading these quotes is evidence that God's prophets are concerned about the family and hope for eternal life. I can expect that God won’t just tell us a few interesting things about the family; He will tell us what a family ought to be and why. Further, we know that our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Chri...
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